9/13/2000 Ss gives me a heads up. His last visit grandma was asking
him about his Wed school lunch schedule. She checked his
schedule. Ss believes they plan Wed abductions to UCLA. I'll
talk to the high school tomorrow. Hopefully the issue's resolved
9/19/2000.
9/15/2000 I just learned grandma called high school counselor to find
out what class ss would have if he returned from lunch on a Wed.
High school counselor said bm is listed as "First Guardian". I
didn't do that last year when I registered ss. I did have her on
the records, but the jr hi helped me structure it that she was
noncustodial, to get info, not able to take him from school.
Bm must have called high school over the phone to change it.
Counselor and I working together to make sure bm is "in the
communication loop" but is not able to take ss out of school w/o
dh's permission.
Our attorney had me tell the school we want to hear about any
contact.
My daughter had a follow-up oral surgeon visit. I told the oral
surgeon I needed a reality check about another situation. I ask him, "If
you wait too long to get your wisdom teeth out, can it take 6 months to
recover?" He's floored, "What?!? A 92 yo would recover within
a week." I don't explain much further to the surgeon, I just
mention it's a long standing custody issue. I let my ss know what
the oral surgeon said..
9/19/2000 Judge puts dh in charge of orthodontic treatment. Bm
and her parents are shocked and angered.
04/2001 After a couple retainer checks at our orthodontist, he'd
forgotten he hadn't done the work, and was disgusted by the retainer
that had lost it's effectiveness and wasn't like his usual retainers
built to be able to tighten or loosen springs in order to keep teeth in
place. Stepson's teeth are getting crooked. He hadn't been wearing
it for a month cuz he'd wake up to find the retainer had come out during
the night. He didn't tell us. Have to get a new retainer.
"She" can be one too!
When you look at the deadbeat sites, ask yourself if you're
behaving like a deadbeat, and remember that men are victims of "her"
deadbeat mentality also.
Whether you are a custodial parent, a non-custodial parent, a
first wife, a second wife, a girlfriend, a boyfriend, ask yourself if you're behaving in
the best interest of the child.
